Hello all!
I realized today it's been awhile since my last post! The days here have been filled with potty training, chew toys and lots of snuggles. Ahri has been such a wonderful addition to the family (even when she does pee on the carpet).
I was reading through one of the city guide books that we received as a wedding gift when I came upon a section devoted to customs and cultural tips related to dining. Some of them I was aware of but others I had never heard of. Here are some of the most important ones I have learned and will be relevant for those who will possibly be traveling in Asia someday (in order to not embarass yourself, like I have!)
1) As far as I can tell, there is no 'proper' way to use chopsticks. Everyone has their own method and way. Whatever helps you to use those two sticks to get the food in your mouth is acceptable. There are normally soup spoons available at restaurants as well, so those can be helpful to pick up larger or slippery items like dumplings or wontons. Bringing the bowl to your face and shoveling with your chopsticks is also perfectly okay. And if all else fails, just stab it with the your stick (my normal method :-)
2) When somebody pours you tea, the proper way to thank them is a double tap on the table with your index and middle finger. It looks like you are telling the dealer to hit you while playing blackjack but I promise you are just being polite.
3) Restaurants cook and chop everything in an animal, including the bones. When eating any type of meat, bite carefully as there will be fragments of bones in there. With this, it is very acceptable to spit out any bones that you have in your mouth onto your plate. If you can, simply pull the bones out with your chopsticks, otherwise feel free to nonchalantly spit them onto your plate. Don't worry, you won't be the only one!
4) Many dinners are served family style on a lazy susan in the middle of the table. Do not worry about trying to grab anywhere around the table for something you want. There are no 'pass to the left or right' rules here, just spin the table or reach over for what you want.
5) At the end of every meal, toothpicks will be placed on the table by your server. When using a toothpick, cover your mouth with one hand while picking at your teeth with the other. It is considered disrespectful to pick at your teeth with an openly as well as walk around with a toothpick in your mouth.
These are just a few of the things I have learned so far and can't wait to take our guests out to dinner here for them to learn as well. It is constantly a learning process and I am always asking Ryan if I am possibly offending somebody and their family with my chopstick skills! To end, here are a few pictures I have snapped of local dining around town, and of course Ahri to make your morning!
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Soup pork dumplings |
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Vegetables at Disneyland, Mickey Mouse carrots included |
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Dim sum |
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Chicken feet...not necessary to repeat |
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Spicy noodles, mushrooms and beef |
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Ahri |